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4 steps to how to listen to your instincts

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4 steps to how to listen to your instincts

Looking for Right Life Partner?

Right Life Partner

Are you also stuck in loop of not finding the right partner?

Or you have found the partner but not sure he/she is right or not?

The search of right partner starts with yourself. First of all how do you know someone is right for you or not? Do you know yourself very well? What do you think ia your value system? What qualities defines you the best? What areas of life you want to grow? What is the definition of marriage in your dictionary? How would marriage change things for you? Why do you want to get married, because everyone is doing it? How much do you know about your desires, body, trauma?

Do you have answers to all the questions? If answer is no to even 1 of them then i think you have to become your own right partner once?

Understand Yourself First

Know yourself first. Your moods, your childhood traumas, your patterns, your programming, your emotions, your life vision, your definition of life. When you know yourself better than you can decide who is right for you. Heal your broken parts so you don’t blame others for your own painful traumas. Enjoy your own company. Give love to yourself and others unconditionally. Find your hobbies.

 

When you know yourself completely, you can take your own decision, what is right for you. You know about yourself more than your parents. You know what makes you happy and what makes you sad. Hence you are not dependent on others for your happiness. When you know, what is marriage and why are you getting married then you won’t be having any unrealistic expectations from it.

 

How to find Right partner?

Now, once you have done work on yourself, you can work on finding the right partner.

You what is the best way to find someone, is by not finding them desperately. Yes, you read it right.

When you find someone desperately, you are saying to universe that you are in lack, lonely and you want someone to fill that. As per law of attraction you attract what you are. More loneliness and more lack.

The best way is, to keep looking someone, keep meeting people but enjoy your own life as well. Enjoy your own company, go out with friends or alone. Spend time on hobbies. First become your own best friend then to someone else.

 

Also, make a list of all the qualities that you want in your life partner. No matter how long the list goes. Keep on adding things. This will make you clear in your mind, what are you exactly looking for.

 

How to identify right partner and what to ask them?

When you are meeting people and what to know who is right for you, there are some signs that will make you feel that “This is the One”. These signs worked for me.

 

You feel peace in their presence

You feel you don’t have to compromise at all

You won’t have to change to fit with them

They appreciate your every single quality

Your life vision aligns with each other

You feel you both are one. Their happiness makes you feel happy and sadness makes you sad

You feel magic in their presence

You feel no one can be as perfect for you as him

These feelings only gives you the proof that you are with the person who was made for you.

 

Still if you are not feeling it yet and want to know more about the guy. Here are the list if questions to ask to know about the guy in and out.

 

Why are you getting married

Who is perfect wife for you

How do you spend your time when you are alone

What is life according to you

What values are important for you which you won’t compromise ever

What you do when you are angry

Whom do you share your inner feelings with

What are your bad memories of past

What are your good memories of past

What you see in future

How you feel and what you do when you don’t get what you want

How was your last relationship and why didn’t it work out

How is relationship between your parents

After getting so much information, i am sure you would be knowing a lot about the guy. Also you would be in a right frame to judge if that person is right partner for you or not.

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