Go and let go of everything you are afraid of losing.——Yoda (YODA), "Star Wars III: Revenge of the Sith"In "Star Wars" there is such a scene, Yoda sits next to a young Anakin Skywalker (Anakin Skywalker), and said to him, "The fear of loss will lead you to the dark side...
That scene caused controversy on the Internet: How could Yoda expect Anakin not to be afraid of losing his beloved one?
So I am thinking about how to deal with the relationship between the sexes?In the process of paying attention to this topic and preparing materials, I found that the most popular topics on the Internet are the following categories:In the relationship between the sexes, what do you value most as a woman/man?How can we not be harmed in the relationship between the sexes?In the relationship between the sexes, how to not be led by the nose?and many more------What most people are looking for are specific ways to deal with problems, skills in getting along with the sexes, etc.
Respect each other's independence and uniqueness.
Those reasons come from myself and have nothing to do with the other person.People with a savior complex are easily attracted to those who need care, empathize with their pain, and are keen to seek ways to relieve their pain, so as to reduce their pain.
(When I started to awaken, I realized that all relationships and all emotions have nothing to do with the outside world.