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Why do women want to have a baby? Obvious and hidden reasons.

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The birth of children is one of the functions of the family and happiness for parents. But children do not appear only in a full family, and they are not always welcome.

The reasons why a woman decides to have a child can be very different. Usually this is a whole complex of different motives. Some of them are constructive and lead to the fact that the child will be born in a family that is emotionally, morally and physically ready for his arrival, and, therefore, the physical health and psychological well-being of this baby will be better and stronger.

Most of the motives for the birth of a child are not realized or partially realized by a woman and her husband, they can be identified only with a properly conducted conversation with a specialist.

What are the main, common motives?

Constructive motives are primarily related to the feeling of love

• to give a new life in order to gain immortality, as it were, by repeating oneself in the child;

• as an appreciation to a loved one for the happiness of living together;

• the desire to bring another unique personality into the world (the birth and upbringing of such a person who has not yet existed).

The following motives may be destructive for family relations:

-force a partner to marry

-strengthen family relationships ("bind" to yourself, return your husband, prevent his departure, etc.);

-give birth "out of spite" to your partner in order to demonstrate your power

- for a single woman: to give birth, "so that there is at least one close person", so that there is someone to take care of;

-replace another child or a close relative who has died with a child who has been born

- get a more favorable social status

- "be like everyone else";

- demonstrate to parents that she has become (has become) an adult;

- force your parents or your husband's parents to accept marriage;

- fulfill the parents' insistent request for the birth of a grandson or granddaughter;

-give birth "for health" (often on the advice of a doctor);

-get material benefits (benefits, alimony, improve living space, etc.) and much more.

Originally published on: https://alfamed.info/stati/pochemu_zhenshchini_hotyat_rodit_rebenka_yavnie_skritie_prichini.html

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